fletch
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Animals I love: All animals but especially cats!
Pets I own: Female black and white short hair cat called Chaos, 01/11/2007
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Post by fletch on Aug 18, 2013 21:23:33 GMT
Hello. I am putting my cat (Chaos, female, 6yrs) into our regular cattery for 2 weeks while we move house. I thought this would be less stressful for her in the long run as there will be a lot of work getting done on the house in the first 2 weeks and we will need to live with my in laws. The cattery is only a couple of miles away and I will miss her loads while she is there. Whenever we take her to the cattery (or the vet) she cries in the car and does the toilet in the carrier - she hates the car. I was thinking of visiting her a couple of times over the 2 weeks she is in the cattery but my husband thinks this will upset her as she is only used to us going to cattery to pick her up and bring her home. He thinks when she sees us she will expect to be going home. I'd like to hear your opinions on this. Thanks
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Post by camorris on Aug 18, 2013 22:38:07 GMT
Hi, I think you husband is right. If it is your regular cattery Chaos will expect to be there for 2 weeks without seeing you, so if you start popping in and then leaving her there it will cause her distress.
My son is moving on Friday, and then taking his wife and newborn son away for the weekend so their cat Bungle will be in the cattery for 5 days. The cattery is further down our road, but I won't be popping in because if I did Bungle wouldn't settle and would spend the whole 5 days crying for attention.
It's hard, but you need to be strong and stay away.
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Post by tonib on Aug 19, 2013 0:21:47 GMT
Hi Fletch, welcome to the forum. I agree with camorris as much as you will miss her it will be less stressful for her especially as she will be going to a new home as well. She will have 2 weeks to settle at the cattery which will be enough time to relax after the anxiety of the car journey & parting from you before her journey to the new home. If you visit then the she will need to relax again after you've gone without her again. By the way I sympathise with the toileting issue, one of our cats often can't get to the end of the road without forcing us to open the window (or wear gas masks if we had them). I think she thinks she's a bio-chemical hazard cat Good luck with the move
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fletch
Newbie
Posts: 2
Animals I love: All animals but especially cats!
Pets I own: Female black and white short hair cat called Chaos, 01/11/2007
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Post by fletch on Aug 19, 2013 9:21:34 GMT
Thanks for your replies. I know he's right and it'll be best for her if i don't visit her. I'm sure the 2 weeks will fly by, we will be so busy sorting the new house!
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Post by tonib on Aug 19, 2013 10:46:24 GMT
It'll be hard but worth it, Hope she settles into the new house easily - let us know how it goes
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Post by gladys on Aug 19, 2013 13:50:00 GMT
I agree with everyone else. I would stay away and just leave contact numbers so you know they will be in touch if something is wrong, hopefully this will help you relax. Lots of people leave their cats while they go on holiday for two weeks so I'm sure she will b fine and will be more settled without you keep visiting until it's time to go home.
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Post by lotsofcats on Aug 19, 2013 14:26:17 GMT
I agree with your hubby - it will be hard for you but it is for the best. When you go to collect your cat make sure that there is lots of her things dotted around the new house with her scent on them. Good luck with the move.
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Post by munchkins on Aug 19, 2013 18:32:48 GMT
Im sure you'll be so busy to visit anyway and like everyone else has said its only likely to upset your cat more.........it must be hard tho
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janussi
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Post by janussi on Aug 20, 2013 10:19:50 GMT
As an ex boarding cattery owner, it was very unusual for people to visit their cats, mid-stay, so it would probably be best not to, unless your cat was in for a long stay.
I wrote the following article for a newspaper on moving home with a cat.
Cats are creatures of habit and thrive in a consistent and familiar atmosphere. Moving house can be very stressful for cats once they are taken out of their comfort zone. Prepare ahead of time to make moving house go as smoothly as possible. The first thing to remember is that cats can be upset by anything that is out of place in their environment. Packing boxes & moving furniture can confuse and frighten the cat. When packing, leave one room until last, for the cat to feel at home in. Make sure that the removers are aware there is a cat locked in the room so they know not to open the door and accidentally let the cat out. To be extra sure, stick a note on the door.
As a safety measure, before you move make sure your cat has appropriate identification. This can be in the form of a permanent microchip or a collar with your home or mobile phone number on it. Obviously, notify the body in which the microchip data is stored of your new address and phone number. Then should the worst happen and your cat does manage to escape, it will be easier for you both to be reunited.
During transit, make sure your cat is safely locked in a cat carrier, and wrap a seat belt around the carrier. If your cat is an especially nervous traveller, it may be worth speaking to your vet prior to your move about the possibility of giving your cat a mild sedative. Make the carrier comfortable and include a favourite blanket or toy with a familiar smell. If you are travelling a long distance to your new home pack a 'Cat Bag'. This should contain food, food dishes, water dishes, a litter tray and clean litter. You will also need plastic bags and a scoop for cat litter disposal. Don't forget a spoon or fork if you are taking canned food and some paper towels and wipes for any accidents. For nervous cats you might want to take a blanket or towel to cover the carrier.
When you arrive in the new home, the cat should be confined to one room until unpacking is completed. Make sure there is fresh food, water, a litter tray and your cat's favourite blanket or bed in the room, and ensure the windows are locked to prevent accidental escapes. If you have more than one cat, they should be placed in a room together so they can comfort each other. You may want to leave a cupboard/wardrobe open, or the cat carrier in the room so they can have a place to hide. This will help your cat feel less threatened. Don't let your cat out of the room until the removers have finished and left. Unless your cat is exceptionally mellow, it might take quite a while until it feels comfortable enough to venture out into other rooms of your new home. This may take several days in fact. Talk to your cat and fuss it often during this time of adjustment. Try to stick to as much of a routine as you possibly can. Leave food and water close by, although it may not want to eat or drink anything for the first day. Some cats take to moving without much drama while others are very stressed and may hide under a bed for days. If your cat refuses to come out of a room or is hiding under a bed supply it with a litter tray and food and water in that room. Don't worry, your cat will eat when he/she is ready. Always have food and water available in familiar bowls. If your cat usually sleeps with you encourage it to do this in your new home. It will feel secure at night cuddled up with people he/she loves. Reassure your cat frequently by giving plenty of attention. Lots of love and cuddles go a long way. Eventually your cat will want to explore the new environment. Let the cat do this at his/her leisure. If your cat will be going outdoors at the new home, check first to make sure there are no dogs nearby. It is best to keep your cat indoors for the first few weeks. Let them really get to know the new home before exploring outside. A little forethought and planning can make a big difference to how easily your cat adjusts to a new home. If your cat is particularly anxious it may be advisable to place him in a cattery the day before the move and collect the day after you are established in your new home.
If you are moving overseas and flying, then you will need to check out airline regulations, Pet Passport requirements, costs etc. You will also need to check with your vet if any additional vaccinations are required.
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Post by gladys on Aug 21, 2013 12:22:52 GMT
janussi That's a very good article. Thanks for sharing.
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Post by chantel on Aug 21, 2013 19:51:09 GMT
Hi, well i moved house nearly 18 months ago and was worried about Sindyand all the chaos, i decided to put her in our local cattery for 1 wk just whilst thing were a little chaotic, she normaly stays at this cattery when we go on holiday so she knows the people their. I did miss her but i kept intouch by phone just to put my mind at rest but i knew she would be much safer their.
When i brought her to our new home it was like a new adventure for her, she settled in pretty quick. I'm sure your kitty will too.
Good Luck with the move.
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janussi
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Post by janussi on Aug 23, 2013 11:30:47 GMT
Thank you Gladys.
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