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Post by spider on Jul 1, 2019 21:52:01 GMT
I can so relate to that the day we picked up spiders ashes we sat in the car outside the vets where we collected him from and cried our eyes out u always have us to talk to u are somewhere each one of us have been we really understand that horrid hurt as much as we are all United in the love of our pets that sorrow also unites us we send u big hugs
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Post by tonib on Jul 1, 2019 23:02:44 GMT
So glad you've got Flirty home again so quickly, especially over a weekend, cazypops. As you say it was so unexpected & that will have made the shock worse. How's your OH taking it? Has Jasper registered Flirty is no longer at home, at least physically? He'll still be there in scents & in the hearts of all of you. spider that was superbly put & so true
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Post by lotsofcats on Jul 2, 2019 9:21:52 GMT
I agree with tonib, that was so well put spider. I'm glad you've got Flirty's ashes back quickly cazypops - he's where he belongs. We are all thinking of you.
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Post by dutchkitties on Jul 2, 2019 12:19:17 GMT
I only read it now. I'm so sorry for your loss of that lovely kitty. Flirty was beautiful. It's such a shock when you are not prepared, but even when you are. RIP good boy.
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Post by chantel on Jul 2, 2019 13:02:03 GMT
It’s the best feeling ever when we bring a new pet in to our lives and it’s the worst feeling ever when they leave us ☹️The pain is just unbearable ☹️And like spider said we have all been there x Losing them is hard enough but even more so when it’s unexpected. Sending you lots of love xx
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Post by lotsofcats on Jul 2, 2019 14:40:40 GMT
I agree with you chantel. It is unbearable when they leave us, but we'd do it all over again.
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Post by cazypops on Jul 2, 2019 22:30:35 GMT
So glad you've got Flirty home again so quickly, especially over a weekend, cazypops . As you say it was so unexpected & that will have made the shock worse. How's your OH taking it? Has Jasper registered Flirty is no longer at home, at least physically? He'll still be there in scents & in the hearts of all of you. spider that was superbly put & so true Maybe there's are the wrong sentiments, but we are so lucky to have a pet crematorium on our doorstep. so rang them as soon as they opened on Saturday morning and got him booked in the same day. We got him back in such a beautiful box, with his name engraved on it, and another one on the inside that is holding his ashes, also with his name engraved on it. I know it was £105 but it was the last thing we could do for him. OH has taken it badly. Jasper knows Flirty has gone, he saw his body.
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Post by chantel on Jul 3, 2019 6:35:03 GMT
So glad you've got Flirty home again so quickly, especially over a weekend, cazypops . As you say it was so unexpected & that will have made the shock worse. How's your OH taking it? Has Jasper registered Flirty is no longer at home, at least physically? He'll still be there in scents & in the hearts of all of you. spider that was superbly put & so true Maybe there's are the wrong sentiments, but we are so lucky to have a pet crematorium on our doorstep. so rang them as soon as they opened on Saturday morning and got him booked in the same day. We got him back in such a beautiful box, with his name engraved on it, and another one on the inside that is holding his ashes, also with his name engraved on it. I know it was £105 but it was the last thing we could do for him. OH has taken it badly. Jasper knows Flirty has gone, he saw his body.
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Post by scallywag on Jul 3, 2019 6:41:34 GMT
So glad you've got Flirty home again so quickly, especially over a weekend, cazypops . As you say it was so unexpected & that will have made the shock worse. How's your OH taking it? Has Jasper registered Flirty is no longer at home, at least physically? He'll still be there in scents & in the hearts of all of you. spider that was superbly put & so true Maybe there's are the wrong sentiments, but we are so lucky to have a pet crematorium on our doorstep. so rang them as soon as they opened on Saturday morning and got him booked in the same day. We got him back in such a beautiful box, with his name engraved on it, and another one on the inside that is holding his ashes, also with his name engraved on it. I know it was £105 but it was the last thing we could do for him. OH has taken it badly. Jasper knows Flirty has gone, he saw his body. So sad , hope Noel feels better soon and remembers the happy times , as we said you did him proud, he left this world a happier little man than when he arrived and moved into your home HUGS X
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Post by chantel on Jul 3, 2019 6:41:52 GMT
I have never seen my o/h in such a state when we lost our late dog mitz, they had a very special bond even though the girls were my dogs when we got together. It totally broke him ☹️ Poor jasper he will come around but he will be picking up on the vibes . It’s great having more than 1 pet but it’s not so great when we loose one especially if they have become close ☹️as they grieve too. X
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Post by meandmine on Jul 6, 2019 11:28:47 GMT
So sorry to hear such sad news.
Take care and gentle telepathic hugs to one and all - both humans and four legged friends.
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Post by zahada on Jul 26, 2019 13:21:41 GMT
So sorry about Flirty. Loosing a beloved pet is always painful, unexpected or expected. We always want them to be with us that little bit longer.
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